When John worked at LDS Family Services right before we got married, one of the therapists John became good friends with invited us in for a free one-hour session of pre-wedding advice. Sadly, I only remember one thing from the session, but we have followed the advice faithfully over the years. He told us that if we continued dating regularly over the years, we wouldn't have to come in for therapy.
I didn't really understand the significance of his advice, until many years later when I realized how much we needed those fun times together to remember just why we fell in love and got married in the first place. One of my friends follows this same advice, and it has also served them well over the years. Her theory is that a date a week is a whole lot cheaper than marriage therapy sessions.
John and I have a hot date tonight going out to dinner with some friends, and I have been looking forward to it all day! We have not been out on a date for over a month because of my dad's situation, the holiday weekend, and then my girls weekend. We are well overdue for some time with each other - out of the house.
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